Thanks for the adivce. Missy, I agree with you. I didnt go into a whole description, but I am an old regualr to DB, and the book I have read many times, along with counseling and all that. So now in my opinion, since Missy you voiced how I feel, it is about setting boundaries. I am happy that Ex is coming back, but at the same time, I dont need the games or the bull. What I have been doing with him is setting boundaries, so he knows how I feel. Monday night we talked and I relayed without pointing fingers, how I felt, and that if he wanted to date others, that is fine, we are divorced, but then I am gone. I dont understand why he would go through all the trouble of visiting me, wooing me, etc, to f up now, in my opinion. I am not impressed about his past weekend or that he is still on match.com. So, that is why I posted here, to get some more opinions to see if what I was feeling was right. This time it is not about messing up, it is about him stepping up and working on things with me, honestly. Otherwise, it is not worth it.
