I agree somewhat with the others - I would go for Valentines day and if it were me - I'd lay the cards on the table - I would let him know I would like to give us a go but this is the only way I will see it will work. If he isn't willing to give up the playboy life than he isn't worth wasting more heartache on in my opinion. In my opinion the games have to be end - he has to step up to the plate and decide what he really wants and I think should fight for you.

Good Luck - I hope it works for you two!

Missy