This life is more than just a read through

[reachingHigher]

I forget how H found out. I might have told him. He was amazed at how well I was taking everything and handling it last year. I really wasn't, but he wasn't living here so I only showed him my best side.

At some point, maybe when I asked him for the money for a DB coach, I told him I was posting on what I call "divorce support" forum. Sometimes I've even mentioned things that happen to people here....like one time I mentioned, during a family supper, that Labug homeschools her two sons and the one in college made dean's list.

Or I said about T^2 living somewhere in the Rockies, and was like an engineer type person. Our family took a vacation up in Colorado one year and did some hiking in RMNP, so I felt that was interesting that I had a cyber friend somewhere over there.

I explained clearly that the forum isn't designed for people to meet each other to form new R's with one another, but only to support and foster their M R.

So the whole family knows I'm on it. Sometimes privately to H, I'll mention something about a couple here and their interaction (or lack thereof). So it's an accepted topic in our household. I explained its cyber friends and people are drawn together for mutual support and advice.

H doesn't seem interested in what I post. But he does like that it obviously has helped me become a better mate and more understanding of his new ways, during MLC and post-MLC.