H & I have talked to the person together and begged them to stay away, explaining it was an important outlet for me.
Wait... So h knows you post here? When did he learn of this?
H has never been interested in my emails or much of my communications with others ever.
Pre-crises, I used to post on car and bicycle forums, and it would bug W. "Who are you talking to", "what's so important". Looking back, she obviously felt cheated that I was spending time on others and not her. I really did mess up by not correcting that at the time.
Now, she shows no interest in my activities. I guess cause she's done.
I never snoop at her stuff.
In my case, I try to limit any posts about anything having to do with that person and also try to limit fun and interesting details about some subjects. (Such as how short the skirt was or how high the heels, lol!!)
OMG, I can see I'll never live that one down!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
