Thanks for the advice. We are in that limbo stage yet where we have not decided to be together, we are talking. However, I do feel disrespected with the past events and obviously past relationship issues are surfacing. I know if we get back together, counseling is a must.
I just bought my tickets to fly - on his credit card. I am trying to watch his actions, however I still feel so angry. Hopefully more will come to light when we sit down and talk about us. If he doesnt remove himself from the dating site, and such, then I can come back here, in GA, and know I can move forward. It's just we have come so far...and this is all a shock. He came back all own. Seems now he is pulling back or reserving something in case we dont work out. And that pisses me off. Sigh. This is never easy, whether saving a marriage or reviving one.
