It is hard for me knowing that he is depressed and there seems to be very little that I can do about it. I mentioned to him before that I thought he might be depressed. He somewhat agreed then stated that "isn't it possible that I am just unhappy?". I am aware that there is not much I can do and that he has to make the changes himself.
You're so right about it being hard. For me it's harder this time because he's always come to me for support in the past when he's had bad times. Now I'm the last person he wants to talk to or get support from. We can only do what we can for ourselves but be there if and when they want our support I guess.
Glad things seem to be going relatively well for you. Whatever you've been doing seems to be going right.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks