I worry about my emotional state and being vulnerable to falling for the wrong woman. I know personally, I have decided on a 1 yr rule. No dating for 1 year after the D is final.
I am going to do this because I worry about my emotional state, and I don't want the distraction of dating to make me less available for my kids.
Everyone is different, and you have been going through this much longer than me, but I just wanted to give you something to think about.
