This life is more than just a read through

[reachingHigher]

Yes, it was someone pretty close too and I felt it was very damaging to the R I have with this person.

But I sorta felt like eventually that the value I get from this site overrides the problem with this person. H & I have talked to the person together and begged them to stay away, explaining it was an important outlet for me.

H has never been interested in my emails or much of my communications with others ever. He musta seen this site come up and he has a way of trying to look at my iPhone or iPad while not leaving his open for view. I think he just wants to see what I'm up to in general, but doesn't need details. Details bore him.

IMO, it all depends on the person. I can see the revelation of details on this site destroying one person and encouraging another.

In my case, I try to limit any posts about anything having to do with that person and also try to limit fun and interesting details about some subjects. (Such as how short the skirt was or how high the heels, lol!!)