He wants to see YOU for Valentines Day. weekend, not the EA or anyone else.
But to get back together, he's going to need to stop acting like he's free. I'd go and do what he said he wants to do - talk and work on things. Then you can see if he's willing to let himself be completely with you. He shouldn't be on Match.com, seeing EA, or taking phone numbers. That isn't acceptable when you are with someone.
That doesn't mean you have to give him an ultimatum, but it's something to discuss.
