Uh oh, I think I may be having my own MLC!! (shopping, gym, wine, appearance, career change....) I think it's possible H's MLC is causing me to have my own MLC in response to what is going on with him.
My husband started working out like CRAZY a little over a year ago, P90X, weight lifting, running 10K every weekend. That insanity has stopped lately. He now goes for walks every so often but the crazy workouts have stopped. For a while he was buying a lot of new dress clothes, and he hasn't bought much lately. He has been going out social drinking more often now then he did a couple of years ago. He has recently got new braces.
It's crazy watching them go through this wild transformation. At the end of it you don't even recognize them anymore, and their personalities also change!
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.