Two roads diverged in a yellow wood...

[chasingpavements]

You're right SM34, and it's hard for me to see him like that. I find it makes me anxious when I am around him and he is doing it. When my mother passed away a few years ago I was doing the same thing, constantly sighing. I am hoping that he will also start IC so he can work out some of his own issues. I can do all that I want on my end, but I think he needs to work on himself as well. It worries me that he is depressed. At least he does seem to be less stressed lately. I think I will pick up a book about depression.