Hmmm. Was a little needy/ manipulative today with H. Normally I do not ask him to do anything around house but noticed a leak in roof. Knew he had a stressy day at work and also spoke to him about minor incident with S drama really. But it involved h's sister so thought I would keep him informed.

Knew he was headed out for a pint but felt need to text about roof. He replied he would take a look and to put a pan underneath. And then he texted joking.
I also felt need to add about another spot on roof I am worried about. No reply there....

Now I get to look at the need behind my behavior. I think it is response to him dating a woman with five year old twins and me reminding him of this responsibility. I think I will sit with this a bit longer and look at it a bit hArder. Happy to take insight.