And also in our talk last night...he said its just gonna take time. This was bottled up for months and be is still very angry at me. Do I ask how much time? Do I just keep on keeping on? Do I ask for a certain time limit?
Right now, I wouldn't ask a question that you may not want the answer to. (Besides, R talk, remember?)
What if he tells you he's giving you a year? What if it's three months? Do you really want to live for the next three months terrified about whether or not you're going to "pass"?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement