URworthy I love your nickname, it's so positive and you talk positively as well smile I really enjoy coming to DB forums, everyone is so supportive and positive smile I've recently left another forum as there's people on there telling me to forget about my H and that I'm better off without him!
Anyway, I'm invading JP's thread, sorry about that smile JP I also have a long list, 15 things on it to be precise, lol. I think a long list stops you from getting bored, lol. Yes it can overwhelm you if you're not careful, but you'll feel better when you start doing 1 or 2 things on the list.
Some days you may not feel like doing anything on your list and that's ok as well smile Don't beat yourself up about it especially if you've had a busy day!
Keep on with the PMA, you're doing great smile Am inspiration to me as you inspired me to do my list smile

H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!