You really have to ask yourself if you are ready to let go and move away from your marriage. Remember, you are the only one who decides when it's over. Building a relationship with another person is definitely a means to an end, or at least a step in that direction. Are you ready for that? Would it make your life better? Would it help you move on and put your marriage behind you? How will it weigh on you if this relationship ends as well? To be honest, I am tip toeing on the edge of the very same thing. A cute D-Mom has been texting me a lot and we have shared some drinks....I am not sure how healthy and happy that will end up making either of us. A date would be fun. A friend would be great. A romantic relationship, I am not too sure about. Just food for thought, GTO.....