From what I read somewhere recently, Google performs personalized searches based on your computers history. Someone on another computer will not get exactly the same result as you. IE your posts came up because that's what you look at. IDN.

Using the same name here as you do in other area's of your life is not a good idea if you'd like to remain anonymous.

If someone knows you're posting here, changing your name won't prevent them from finding your posts if they're really set on doing so.

I like to try to post as if W may see it some day. Heck, maybe she's following along right now. Hi honey, I'm here because I think you're special and you mean a lot to me!

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl