let's start at the end, shall we?

[KindaHappy1]

my 180's have been
working out and looking good!
dieting (Lost 40 lbs so far, around 20 to go!)
Becoming more social (started facebook and I've reconnected with a few friends that I will be making a point to meet up regularly
Spending more time playing with my boys
Started going to church

I need to keep working on not being reactive

I'm trying to keep my distance. We do have contact with each other through work, so between the kids and work, there is always a reason for us to talk, but I'm trying not to abuse that.