Hi Kinda, I am still new to all of this so i'm sure i will be corrected if I am wrong. Since moving out what have you been doing to GAL? Have you identified any more areas to 180? One thing I did notice was that you asked to go with her to the fair. It seems to me that it is pursuing when you make requests like that. Take the pressure off of her. When the time comes that she wants you to join her on something she plans then she will ask you. Have you been making plans to spend time with the boys without her at all? I have been trying to focus on my kids as much as possible. Hang in there. I will be checking on you.
