He has seen a drastic positive change in me and loves it. BUT....he is very skeptical it's lifelong. He has asked me many times for this change and I have never followed through in the past. And he is somewhat pessimistic about it all. I don't blame him.
Neither do I.
The best response you can give him is "I understand how you feel and I agree that I haven't been able to change as much as I wanted, but I'm trying." And make the changes stick, because as you now know, he is serious about leaving if they don't.
Originally Posted By: Lll54
The one scary thing he did say was that he isn't sleeping well at all. And the last time that happened was right before he left last time. And he doesn't know why he can't sleep. He said leaving isn't in his mind right now so he isn't sure why. And it scares me to death....
Don't worry about the things you can't fix, worry about the things you can fix.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
