Don't come around here no more

[AJM]

WH, I can totally understand the frustration and feeling like "it was there all along". You didn't pick wrong. He wasn't always that way toward you. He wasn't always bent on this path like he is now. I don't know him, but I do know the behavior type. My ex displayed things that were part of her for years. My father always said she was like that. His way of seeing it to be sure, but she wasn't always that way. During all of this, I remember thinking how unbalanced she was in her behavior. It was the only way I could describe it. Heck, she could not figure things out about herself - I didn't stand a chance of figuring it out.

But there's nothing wrong with my "picker" if you will. If there was, I would have ended it many many years ago. Or she would have (she could have easily done so prior to her actions).

I realize he is trying very hard to hurt you. He is. And he will continue for a while. But you can rest assured there's nothing with you that picked wrong. There's nothing you've done to "deserve" this behavior. This is him and all about him. In time you'll see that and have insulated yourself from it in a way that he'll have to find a new "target" That's coming sooner than later, my dear.

And you can trust your lawyer and God. Your H has nothing he can touch you with. He can only annoy at this point, but legally the ball is in motion and your L will see it comes out fairly.

Be patient. Almost there, WH.

AJ