willbwell, I know the urge. I suspect my W was not honest with me when she said there was no one else in the picture when she left, and I think any reasonable person in my shoes would be suspicious too.

But really, what does it matter? Does it change the fact that our WAS left? No. Do you think it would make it easier for you move on? Well, maybe, but you'd be acting out of emotion instead of reason. Is that what you want?