Hi lost, my heart goes out to you. I am still new to all of this, but it seems we both struggle with detaching. I let my W's choice to S/D affect me in a negative way. You have to remember that the only thing you can control about that is how you choose to react to THEIR choices. You need to be happy and healthy for yourself and your little one. Focus on that and choose to be happy and healthy. I look forward to seeing your growth.
