Dropping the Rope

[lost_hope]

As long as you are aware that if anything were to come of this it would most certainly be a temporary/rebound thing then as an adult with two eyes open I really don't see the harm. If you are looking for more, or think you might get hooked on Sven post "more than snuggling" then of course that would not be good. I don't see it as a bad thing that he said he doesn't have time for a R ... that's what we women always want from men, for them to be honest and upfront. He's D and has a child and a heavy hours job ... that makes sense to me.

I may be way wrong, but male attention in this case I think is good for your self esteem but it's also good for dropping the rope and moving on. Not necessarily into a new R, but just moving on period. What I wouldn't give for a cute unattached man to talk to, hang out with, and yes eventually snuggle. It would help me move on from the misery which is the mental jail that imprisons me keeping me attached to my H who can so very easily detach from me (and more than once now in our M).