"Would love opinions about a potential R with him... too young? too soon? transitional R? booty call to be??? Not sure, but it feels sooooo good to be given positive attention from a very cute, young, D'ed guy--let's call him Sven!

Sorry, can't help myself! (Just in case anyone is wondering...I have boundaries regarding a new R until my D is final & at some point I may need to let Sven know what those are.)"

Hey GTO good to hear from you. IMO , it's too soon just lay out your boundaries to him and see how he takes it...but in the meantime just enjoy the "positive attention" it's good for your self-esteem.

You sound good keep it up!

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.