Ohh the fantasy stuff, plz be careful with that, that's why they call them fantasies. I know this one was with you, but opening Pandora's box might have her act on on some others that you wouldn't be involved with.

I think its GREAT you have a BIL (although not great for your BIL) going thru some of the same issues and that she can trust. What a way for her to get some insight, when she's thinking straight that is. At the same time its funny how they cant correspond their actions to the actions of ANYONE else going thru the same sitch sometimes. Its gonna be about her and her only 90% of the time.

Cant she get started on some of these classes via correspondence or online, or is it the college lifestyle she also craves? I'm sure she cant get all the classes she needs this way, but im sure theres a few she can.

Keep riding the storm out - REO Speedwagon