Thumpered, sorry to hear about your health. Do you go to the gym? That helped me a lot. I still go regularly, it's now been 7 months. Also make sure you get a good night's sleep. The weight loss you show is troublesome, don't lose any more weight.
About the W. Why have you gone dim? Don't go too dim. Give space, but when she comes over have a PMA and appear happy. It does work.
What do your kids think? They are old enough to see what's going on.
