Hope you see your being played just a bit, your vulnerable, you want revenge, let me give you a hint. This isn't it, it would be a temporary, very temporary reprieve from your feelings, AND the guilt later would be even worse.
Give yourself some time, if he's really a good guy, he'll understand. I'd even be so bold as to ask him if he could just back away a little bit and let you process some things. You might want to ask him, since he's divorced, why his marriage failed. And see if you believe it, cause my hunch is he cheated on his wife. He seems like an awfully smooth operator. He's made every excuse why he cant be with you, but at the same time wants you over for snuggle time. impressive
