Just finished catching up on your thread. Good to hear you are feeling better and more confident about the person you are becoming! Personal growth is what this is all about--becoming a new, improved you moving forward. Accepting our mistakes and dealing with our contributions to the breakdown of our marriages.
ruby says it so well in that really the LBS's are the ones that ultimately have the power and when you feel that power shift--that you are the one in control, no the WAS then you know you have arrived.
No, you didn't choose for your family to break. But, you cannot control your W or her decisions. And, the past is the past. Choose to move forward in a positive direction. Take the high road where OM is concerned. Talk to your daughter and validate her feelings, as I know you already do.
My friend, I think you and I have arrived to a new part of the path that is our journey. Welcome to the new road...it's still bumpy but the view is a whole lot better!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
