Dropping the Rope

[littleGTO]

Updates-

Boston was awesome w two great dbing friends!! Can't wait to GAL with them again! You two rock!!

Interestingly the night I got home from Boston I received a late-night text from cute D'ed guy (not a booty call if there is no physicality, right???)

I did go over to his house and we talked for 3 hours!!! No physicality at all. But DEFINITELY a lot of positive body language and we talked about pretty much everything under the sun.

Don't know where this will lead. He made it very clear that he does not have a lot of time to give to a R right now--works like 55-60 hours a week and has a young son 50% of the time.

Without going into a lot of details on paper he doesn't seem right for me- esp a huge age gap. HOWEVER, I am very attracted to him...not sure how he feels about me.

He did send me this text about 2 minutes after I got home... "Too bad our R is what it is...I could really go for some snuggling right now."

I responded. "I feel the same"
Him, "Well you could come snuggle"

Me- "While I would love to I would get zero sleep for my long drive tomorrow (going on a 11 hour drive w my boys) and might worry that it could/would lead to more than snuggling"

No response that night, but have been texting him a few times this week while on vaca.

Would love opinions about a potential R with him... too young? too soon? transitional R? booty call to be??? Not sure, but it feels sooooo good to be given positive attention from a very cute, young, D'ed guy--let's call him Sven!

Sorry, can't help myself! (Just in case anyone is wondering...I have boundaries regarding a new R until my D is final & at some point I may need to let Sven know what those are.)