Thanks, AS, you are right about the underlying pain I feel & somehow H's unhappiness actually makes me feel better. I just want him to realize and experience some of this pain so he maybe will realize that this A w OW is not the answer to his issues or lack of happiness.

Thanks, SP, I appreciate the positive thoughts! And you too, ruby!

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.