How sad that she threw all of the cards in the trash. I'm certain that one day she will regret what she did, if she remembers I can picture it now, the two of you at 85 years old sitting in your rocking chairs on the front porch, reading each others cards. In my opinion, you have a better than 50/50 shot at doing just that only with the new cards that you'll be giving each other between now and then. I'm not giving up on you so you can't either!
I'm not sure if my h has every one of the cards that I gave to him but at least 2-3 years worth are in plain sight for not only me but him to see. I doubt he even notices them any longer. He dated everyone of the cards that he's given me and it's interesting to read the cards from the last 18 months. It was a slow but sure change. In several of them he even mentions "his journey" which I find absolutely fascinating. He knew and he was even telling me what the future would bring but I had no idea that his journey would also include a journey for me!
More to update but I've got an early day tomorrow and need some rest.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
I can picture it now, the two of you at 85 years old sitting in your rocking chairs on the front porch, reading each others cards. In my opinion, you have a better than 50/50 shot at doing just that only with the new cards that you'll be giving each other between now and then. I'm not giving up on you so you can't either! 