The college drop off went very well. H didn't talk a whole lot but still did. It is a 3 hour drive. We dropped d19 off, took her to lunch and we left because she already had to attend meetings etc.

On the way back we talked pretty much. Nothing about us just about work, general bs. He stayed at the house a little while then went back to his parents house. Later he text me "thanks for a pleasant ride home. Actually the whole day". I text him yeah it was nice and also told him thanks for saying that because it made me feel good. He said "I'm not an ass all the time".

Haven't really heard much out of him since and really don't expect to. He is dragging his feet on moving forward with the d.

Went to mc today, just me, and I told her I told him I'm done. I told her I wanted to get it moving and she asked what my hurry was. I told her that 3 years is a long time and I would like to move on with my life and I can't date while married. I just can't do it. She understood. I also told her that he is very confused still.

I think he did see in an entire day I was a pleasant person to be around. I didn't bring up us and our issues, I didn't complain about what the kids didn't do etc. I'm sure his head is spinning. Good. I'm glad I'm giving him something to think about.

How did your talk go?

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out