My H left just before "heavy" season. Two weeks after my birthday, 1 week later H's bday, 3 days later S14's bday, 3 days later Mother's Day.

H wanted to spend time with S14 but I had made plans for a party and sleepover. Then it was Mother's Day and they were mine for the day.

I had to make plans so he wouldn't feel like his birthday was ruined and am glad I did. He had a great weekend.

You need to do what is right for you and your family though.

M 16 T 20
M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15
Bomb drop April 4;
Moved out April 13
D started-full force
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Dancing through the fire
Cause I am a champion and
you’re gonna hear me ROAR