Well yes I am looking forward to the trip...not too worried about W not coming.... D{12} kept calling her to get her to come...of course W is blaming this on me...and thinking that I am prodding her to do it...which I am not as W can be grumpy and $$ on trips; at this point I would rather be just with my girls...D{12}is really mad at her M but I am going to stay out of it, I know W will want to talk about it tonight when I have to go over there so she can see Girls before we leave...if she is going to push me to talk about it I am going to tell her I am sorry but I don't want to talk about it...that is between you and D{12}....Just don't know how to say it yet