Originally Posted By: Thumpered
I'm glad your getting along a bit better, even thou theres still a few highs and lows. Baby steps. Try not to mind read. And do your best to not react to his bad days. By golly, you've got this DB thing down now.

Hold on, the ride is far from over!! Like I've said before, I know its a roller coaster ride, but continue to act like your standing in the hot dog line instead.


Thumpered is right. Be prepared for that roller coaster to continue.

Just keep doing what you find is working.

Good luck and stay strong!


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks