Um, yeah, he has other things on his mind, WH. Go figure, right?
Keep on the path you're on. You're doing well and covering things as best you can. You can make a request to the credit bureaus. Most people make at least the one free request each year and it won't hurt your rating. Doing it over and over again in a short time span is what hurts - the companies look for patterns and flag those.
Things are moving along, which is good. Your lawyer knows it's a matter of time, as does everyone else. Your L is seeing that the things your H is trying are, one by one, being removed as barriers. One brick at a time, he is taking the lies apart. It is expensive, and there will be accusations from your H, but it's nothing to worry about.
Sorry he missed the swimming. Hopefully he'll be able to dig out of the rest of it enough to continue to pay attention to the kids. My guess is he will have trouble keeping that pace of the happy facade, and it'll show sooner than later. Just a guess though.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."