What's the worst that can happen if she gets angry with you? Leave you? If the tax question affects YOU, than answer. Time to be selfish in a loving way that is. If it doesn't affect you let her do the work that's what divorce will be anyway.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”