WhiteRose and RosaLinda, thanks for the female perspective. Sometimes I wonder if my W is more like a man in this aspect of her life. I do think it shows that the W has strong feelings for me. I want to make it more intimate to grow those feelings and for me too. My BD coach has recommended Tantric Sex to make it more intimate. My W doesn't seem interested. I started reading this book called Passionate Marriage -- so far it seems interesting. I'll let you know what I learn.
