No, it's you, T. You are the one who has changed. She is simply responding to the man she likes.
She is pursuing b/c you are not caving in when she crooks her finger, like you did in the past. I have to say she sure doesn't beat around the bush, does she? But I believe it has been good for her to be in the persuing shoes. If you had given in and slept with her that first time she suggested it, I do not believe things would have continued to progress in a positive way.
You are doing really good, so I hope it will encourage you to hold out a little longer.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
