Hey Community,

So today I received our final divorce papers. We are now officially divorced.

It really sends a message of finality to the whole situation. I'm sad about it and yet also feel some relief. I can't change the past and this certainly is a strong reminder of how we both failed in our relationship.

Without effort from her there can be no R. Our R is over now and at this time there is no new R for us.

I don't know if this will be full closure for all things.


together 7+yrs
Married 3
Me 33
W 33
no kids
BD 9/12
MC 9/12
W leaves MC 10/12
W moves out 11/12
Divorce 2/13
W moves 5/13
NC 05/13
D final 8/13