"got her groove back" Love that movie! Favorite scene... lighting up all the WH's stuff in his mercedes! I am starting to watch my sitch from a spectator point of view. It's peaceful here! Feels good. "Isn't that interesting?"
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
I read something that struck a chord with me on an old thread of SweetBabyRed's -- something like "Make sure the road home is smooth and paved."
^^^^^Amen!^^^^^
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
But I know I got that valuable advice from several of the posters I've been reading over the past year. I never would have thought of that on my own!
Everyone here has been so sweet and helpful, even as we're all going through our own miserable sitches.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
You're not only lovely but honest SBR! What do you say we set up an online dating service for former Standers who have survived their spouse's MLC? I have never met such a nice bunch of people before, it would be nice to see them all happy.
It would be a great public service
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
Road will remain smooth and well paved. Broached subject of ski pass today, as families get a free one due to volunteer work H does.. I said " I guess I am passless? "
H replied " we are not divorced so this year you will have a pass. If they give e grief I will say we aren't divorced.
At H 's apt. No snooping( yay). Okay a little, so I know new interest spent the night , but I do know they are sleeping together so no shocker. H is here, I am just studying and waiting for our run tonight.
The vibe is a bit weird, but acting as if.
Went surfing yesterday, broke my toe and got a few bruises, but it was fun. Hope I can run the half on Sunday
"H replied " we are not divorced so this year you will have a pass. If they give e grief I will say we aren't divorced."
That's a strange way to put it. I know H feels divorced, but he is really still married. My H has been telling people that we only had a 25 year contract, so he's not married either.
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
"H replied " we are not divorced so this year you will have a pass. If they give e grief I will say we aren't divorced."
That doesn't really surprise me that much. Xh would claim to be married if/when it suited him, although he'd also state that he didn't consider himself married since the day he said he wanted to separate.
Just be thankful he's in a good mood right now and willing to give you the pass!
RosaLinda, I'd love a dating site like that. I'm in marketing, so if you create it, I'll promote it. We could all state our love languages and maybe have to take db'ing quizzes to prove we could register!
On the dating site I'm on, I put in my profile "So if you've filed for divorce before because you just weren't happy any more or didn't have anything in common, then move on to the next profile. I want someone who understands commitment and what "for better, for worse" really means."
Might be harsh, but I know what I want!
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
On the dating site I'm on, I put in my profile "So if you've filed for divorce before because you just weren't happy any more or didn't have anything in common, then move on to the next profile. I want someone who understands commitment and what "for better, for worse" really means."
I love this. I saved it for future reference
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
