My wife is a professional with 3 advanced degrees and earned a 6 figure income for years. Due to the economy and loss of her job, she began working at a landscaping design company. The OM is an overweight, immigrant hispanic guy who speaks broken english and doesn't even hold a highschool diploma. WTF? I cannot comprehend this at all! Your thoughts on this?
This seems to happen a lot. And, the WAW seems to pick OM that is totally opposite from her H. Your W is in a complete fantasy world and she is trying to escape her real world. If she was not fogged out of her mind, she could see this other guy as he truly is for real.
It's not about his appearance or education, but how he makes her feel. I'm sure that blows your mind, but she would not spend a minute of her time on him otherwise. It is all about her feelings, and she is operating from her emotions. That's why it is important that you operate from knowledge. You will not be able to reason with her, b/c she isn't able to be logical at this time.
She's not the woman you married.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
