"What was forgiven was undone. To sum it up, i managed the situation poorly."
What exactly did they do to her?
Right now forget about what your W says about your children not seeing your family. They are your kids and they are YOUR family. Honor your parents.
Right now your W is going to blame everyone for her bad behavior except for herself. She is not taking any personal responsibility for what she's doing.
Think of it this way. She's a big child right now. And when she doesn't get what she wants, she'll bully you, throw a tantrum and make a big noise until she gets what she wants.
What do you do with a child who acts like that? Do you give them what they want? NO! If you do, they will keep doing what they're doing and walk all over you.
You are the man of the house. Time to start standing up to her when she throws her tantrums. Don't yell or argue. Just look her straight in the eye and tell her that you will not be talked to like that and if she is going to continue the way she is, then she doesn't deserve your respect.
Then walk away. Head up and shoulders back. A strong man knows the right way to handle a strong woman.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
