WH, Dig deeper for patience...okay? Your h is his own worse enemy and your lawyer knows exactly what your h is doing and he will be there every step of the way to counter what your h wants. Let the system do the work and I know it's difficult, but you have to allow God to have the wheel on this one for a while. You've got to find your inner center and remain as calm as you can be. Your h is tipping his hand and I do not believe for one minute he's going to get everything he wants.
Hang in there a bit longer...he is self destructing and it will take a bit more time for that little time bomb to go off within him.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.