wife hardends heart-2

[planet]

So planet under Malaysian law if your wife gets custody and you have access, would you have the right to take them to see your parents?

Of course. She wants to insert a restriction on my family on the D agreement but the L advised against it as it can't be done. He said the children should have access to their grandparents so they will experience love from all while growing up. My parents love the kids and were never cruel. Even this W cannot dispute.

But as a W who has to deal with my H always picking others, especially his mom, over me and never standing up for me -- and yes, I do mean "always" and "never" -- it is extremely hurtful for your W to have dealt with. And it does increase the rage and anger that your W might feel, honestly she prob just feel like you're not on her side and never will be.

I understand your hurt as well as my W's. I know it now after a long soul searching. I spoke to my family and they agree that they responsible for their part no matter how trivial it may seem to them. I am responsible for my in-actions.