The reality is that adult kids will make their own decisions on how and when they spend time with their separated parents. However what you allow in your home is your choice. Before your daughter's boyfriend moves in, you would be well advised to get clarity on what is best for you. I suggest talking to a DB coach to help you deal with these issues, as your coach would help you figure out the best way to have an adult relationship with your kids, where your needs are met. Take good care.
Karen, Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004 karen@divorcebusting.com
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