wife hardends heart-2

[lost_hope]

So planet under Malaysian law if your wife gets custody and you have access, would you have the right to take them to see your parents? Unless your parents are cruel to your kids, I don't see how it's fair of her to prevent your kids from seeing them. This whole threatening suicide thing is either manipulative (if she has no intention of doing so) or downright scary and super extreme (if she is even contemplating that).


We ALL have our faults so don't beat yourself up. Your wife is no saint over there with her OM and suicide threats, sorry to say that. But as a W who has to deal with my H always picking others, especially his mom, over me and never standing up for me -- and yes, I do mean "always" and "never" -- it is extremely hurtful for your W to have dealt with. And it does increase the rage and anger that your W might feel, honestly she prob just feel like you're not on her side and never will be. Anyway, I wish you luck in your sitch!