Speaking from a woman's perspective women may continue to ML to feel a connection. We tend to ML for emotional reasons-it can be to fill a painful void in our spirit like it can be to show love to our spouse. That being said we can also sometimes just want to, just like many men, we need a physical release.
It sounds positive that she is talking to her brother, no? He understands your perspective, if he's in a similar situation, and he has your W's ear. I hope that he can be a voice of calm and reason for her and then it won't be coming from you.
I hope things continue to improve for you SA. I'm keeping my fingers crossed:)
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