FY, I find it very helpful to read your posts and see your perspective.
If I am able to help anyone on their journey I am delighted. So many here have helped me so much.
I've learned there is no magic answer to fix the sitches we are in, (doesn't mean I've totally given up looking!) but this board is certainly the best guide I have found.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl