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Thanks RealityTrip! I certainly appreciate your response and suggestions. I know. I tell myself right before I pick up her phone, "You don't want to see this", but I do it anyway. Sometimes, I'm able to convince myself to leave it alone, Because, you're right. I know. It's happening. Whether I read about it or not, it's happening. I'm working on it. I'll get there.

You're certainly right about it not making sense to me. The big thing is this, and just humor me, please; My wife is a professional with 3 advanced degrees and earned a 6 figure income for years. Due to the economy and loss of her job, she began working at a landscaping design company. The OM is an overweight, immigrant hispanic guy who speaks broken english and doesn't even hold a highschool diploma. WTF? I cannot comprehend this at all! Your thoughts on this?

Thanks for the encouragement.

My DB coach and I decided it's probably best not to confront W at this time.